We all seem to be thinking we're special or unique, and 10 years ago that might've been the case. But today it's so wildly accepted to be different that the unique ones are the ones we would otherwise look to as "normal".
If you have no baggage, who are you even as a person? That doesn't go to say those without baggage aren't validated too. But without pain, can we really have happiness?
There is no light without shadows.